First remember to take your fucking antidepressants on the daily. They keep your head from feeling like a wave and your toes from tingling. Oh, and something about the chemicals in your brain and all that.
I got cut at work. Last week doing my job like I always do, and a coffee mug poking out of a black garbage bag sliced me open. Didn’t see it. But then I saw all the blood pouring out of my pinky.
I should’ve gone to get stitches that night. Should’ve left work right away and gone to the emerg. But it was the first real time I’ve been hurt that bad at work so I didn’t know what to do. I didn’t know I had rights. Apparently.
Two stitches the next morning. Well that’ll show ’em. The supervisor who didn’t think I was worth sending home. Who didn’t think I was worth a WCB case.
Just my luck, stitches got infected. I always get stitches infected. So after the real emerg visit that took a short three hours, my finger is a gross mess and I wish I’d just fucking seen that broken mug handle.
But really I wish that who ever broke it in the first place and decided it was an okay idea to leave it in the bag had there skin broken. Had their perfect tissue shred by china and their precious blood drip to the floor. I wish they had to have a needle jammed into their tiniest finger with numbing liquid so they could be thread back together. I wish that person was going through the small hell I am right now feeling like a burden at work and feeling like an ugly sore.
So I’m not happy about work. Not happy that they felt so strongly that I wasn’t important enough.
But only I can fix that. By leaving.
Sigh.
If only it were that easy.
I’ve been thinking lately why I didn’t become a tradesperson. I lived in Alberta. I had the perfect opportunity. Or why I didn’t go to college straight after high school. I’ve been hating that all I am is a writer. But that’s the self-loathing, self-deprecating writer to the core. I like other things, but I may not be good enough at them to make them a career.
I’ve applied to other places. Been thinking how I get a government job like my mom. Lately I’ve been wanting to work outside for the city – you know, cutting grass and planting shit. Get ripped.
I’m unhappy and frustrated. Everything else in my life is going well for a change. My writing has caught the attention I need to get going in this city. And I’ve still got three amazing best friends who listen to me complain about my life – and listen to me talk and text about the incredible human I’m into.
I’m a cynical person, but I’m forever hopelessly fucking optimistic. I’ll fix this fucking unhappiness. I’ll start right fucking after this post.